Getting a man to respect you is partly about getting him to respect the fact that you are a class act. Remember that old saying that we teach others how to treat us? You need to avoid dressing certain ways or certain behaviors or you will be disrespected.
Part of this is demanding to be treated like a lady. Allow a man to be polite to you and do you little favors such as pull out your chair and order from the menu for you.
Don’t shove your way through a door before a man can open it for you. Never call him sexist, even if you privately think this kind of thing is sexist. Men show respect by being allowed to do things for women.
Do mind your own business and don’t volunteer any unnecessary opinions or information when the men are talking. It is also important not to gossip in front of the man. Don’t gossip about him to your girlfriends. Gossiping is one sure way to rapidly declassify yourself both in his eyes and in the eyes of your friend.
Do be cool. Get the knack of knowing how to say the right thing to say at the right time. You should also avoid being a drama queen.
In a dating scene it is also a good idea to wait until the man calls you. Men tend to disrespect women who call them. Don’t text him too much either. He will just dismiss him. Direct all of the attention in the room to the man you are with.
Don’t talk for hours about yourself and especially your emotions.
Be sure to live in the present and be a good sport. Don’t talk about your exes or constantly compare the past to the present. This makes you look insecure and foolish. Men just don’t have much patience to this.
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Women who are respected have a life beyond romance. Do become involved in your community and practice acts of philanthropy and charity. Show that you have a good heart and have more love to give than just the sexual love you want to give to him. This creates true respect for you.
Don’t be selfish and throw tantrums when you don’t get want you want. Drama queens don’t tend to move ahead in life.
Another turn off for men is women who put on their make up and brush their hair in public. Retire to the washroom if you want to do this kind of thing.